my name is victoria. i am a senior in college and am preparing for the rest of my life.

i think of others and take their opinions into consideration. at times, i bend over backwards to make things easier for others. i have a difficult time saying no to requests, for example.

some call it a flaw, others call it a virtue. i call it a bit of both.

i care about what others think and what others feel, true. however, when push comes to shove, i will do what i need to do. i will not sacrifice myself, my well-being, my happiness, entirely for others.

i am not a sidekick, i am not a doormat, i am not someone who is easily manipulated.

just felt a need to clarify.